A 29 year old woman is confused about what to do. She fell in love with a guy who travelled and got imprisoned for 15 years. In the heat of the moment, she promised him to wait which she regrets later and got confused. She even considers suggestions like going to him (don’t know how…

I have counseled people in the last 2-3 years who get married and the Husband travel after few months/weeks into the marriage and they have not seen him/her for 9,10, 15 years or more years? Is it right to keep asking them to wait? Wait for what? And why do some put themselves in this…